What’s the story behind the name?
Names and stories have been on my mind recently. With Jeff’s wedding last week it was a chance to catch up with some friends retell some old stories and be called by a couple of nicknames I haven’t heard in a while. Also as my wife is with child we get to dream up new stories for the names of a child that has yet to experience them. It’s a wonderful point in time where names are holding more meaning and the use of a different name changes the tone of the experience. Last Friday, at Jeff’s wedding, I couldn’t help but notice the officiant referring to him as Jeffery and butchering his bride’s maiden name (“it rhymes with maverick, damn it!”); fortunately not during the ceremony. It’s as if the man I was standing next to was no longer the person I’ve known for 10+ years but a new married man that I would need to be reintroduced to. The use of a particular name implies a history with that person, to use a nick name implies shared experiences; a first name a familiarity; a last name a degree of respect. Each with name has a new story to go with it.
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